Could it be possible that love can bring out the best in you?
Is it feasible to love someone without having expectations?
Or is it true that love makes you feel happy, confident, and accepted?
We know that love is a feeling which is very pure and deep for a particular person.
It’s a commitment to a person who understands they aren’t going to always make you happy but still, you want to share and spend your life with them. But, is it attainable to love with a whole heart and with a sense of forgiveness?
So, guys here we’ve 5 reasons how (and why) love brings out the best in your life:
1. Love Makes You Believe
You’ve been hurting yourself in a relationship or maybe experiencing breakup right now, but somehow you still believe in love. Your friends might make fun of your beliefs in something that only leads to heartache, and to be honest there’s a little proof right there.
Something has to make you feel the numbing pain of that first real heartbreak.
But wait, I am not making a great case for love here, the thing is love does exist, and giving up on it isn’t going to make you feel better. Let me make this point more understandable for you.
See, if you’ve loved before, then love exists.
Just because it didn’t work out this time doesn’t mean it will never going to work out with someone else. Have hope and believe!
You loved, you lost it and you know you will love again.
My friends, you all are capable of love. It is not just exclusive to dating or marriage. You have your parents, siblings, and friends. Cherish them, feel love around you.
As long as you still feel love, you still have a strong reason to believe in it. Try to see positivity around you. Watch happy couples, families near you. This will make you feel excited and hopeful.
Let’s motivate you a little more by this cute and simple practice. It’s an observation I want all of you to see. Next time, when you meet any pet or a kid, watch their actions. Yes, just patiently watch and observe their actions.
Do you know if kids and pets believe in something, they will give their best to get it? No matter what, they just don’t care. They always believe in the good and it reminds you to do the same!
Also, read: The Only Story You Need To Read For MOVING ON
2. Love Gives Your Life A Meaning, Light, And Purpose
When you are in a relationship, you feel more responsible. And the irony is nobody forces you to work or act more maturely but you by yourself become motivated to be a better person.
Love gives you direction and the right path to follow in your life.
It is such an essential part of our lives as it has the power to create who we are and guide us on how we live our lives and impact others.
It gives you something to hold on even in your darkest moments.
A healthy relationship will always give you faithful results in your career also. It is very appreciating as it makes a person more focused and passionate about their life because of continuous support and love given by their partner.
3. Love Makes You Feel Happy And Accepted
One of the most basic yet highly important advantages of love is happiness. Love creates happiness within you and you feel content with yourself and the surroundings.
You know, we all are never meant to live in solitude. Instead, we deserve to be in a positive company of people who brings empathy and support in our lives.
Those who always give are receiving love in invisible ways.
When you make your partner feel special and elated, happiness is created within us instantly. You will feel elated in little things like just by holding each other’s hands, spending time with each other, or by sharing thoughts. And it surely complements your mental as well as physical health too because you produce good hormones and channelize your thoughts in a productive manner.
4. Love Makes You Realise The Actual Meaning And Depth Of intimacy
“Intimacy” describes both emotional and physical closeness and openness. It is that sense of closeness that comes when we share our lives deeply with each other. Partners share their thoughts, opinions, and desires. They lead each other on a spiritual journey, and yes they have sex together.
So basically intimacy involves sharing all the aspects of life with our partners.
3 types of intimacy play a specific role in building self-admiration and happiness.
- Intellectual Intimacy: It comes when two people share their thoughts. As we all know the human mind is always active with thoughts. All-day long we think, we interpret, etc. When partners share their desires, they feel protected and special with each other. Sharing daily basis experiences and perspectives ensures your intellectual intimacy’s level to be highly rich and deep.
- Emotional Intimacy: We all agree that everyone has a past; it may be good or bad. It may be very amazing or devastating. In any case, sharing these experiences with your partner can make your bond very intense and favorable. Emotional intimacy is the sense of closeness that comes when you choose to share your emotions with your partner.
And for this to happen there is only one key: ACCEPTANCE!
Next time your partner feels hurt or in some discomfort, ask them “I can see how you might have felt by that” or “Is there anything I can do to help”. Such things will make your partner feel special and protective.
- Sexual Intimacy: When both the partners have reached the level where they have attained intellectual and emotional intimacy.
Then it’s time for sexual intimacy to occur. Sexual intimacy is about flowing naturally with your partner deep into love. Remember, it is not just limited to sharing bodies. It is about sharing emotions, spending time together, giving affirming words, praying together, and apologizing for your failures.
This is the actual road for sexual intimacy which will give you security, peace of mind, happiness, and positive vibes.
5. Love Makes You Free From Expectations
An understanding of love has its own logic. When you are in love, you fall for a person because of their smile and happiness not for your particular needs and expectations to fulfill.
You know, it’s very important to be clear about your thinking and understanding about love before you can confide in a partner.
An exploration of self is indeed essential to attain or rebuild a sense of love. This self-introspection will make your relationship free from anger, being hurt and unnecessary fights.
A relationship makes you feel free from unwanted pressure and too many expectations. Trust me; stop hurting yourself and your partner because of this demanding, comparison, and higher expectations trap. Instead, you should work upon building friendship, fidelity, trust, honesty, and acceptance with your partner.
So, friends, this is all for today. I hope you like these 5 reasons for how and why love brings out the best in one’s life. HOPE you get inspired by the most natural part of our life called LOVE.
Just have faith and relax. You will get the best in your life.
Love your life, always show gratitude and respect towards others.